Real Destination Wedding Cost: Luxury Lake Como Elopement

Stunning Lake Como Elopement

Focusing on what was important to them as a couple, M & S chose to have a luxury Lake Como elopement and honeymoon. M & S’s highly personal wedding is a great reminder that the cost of getting married abroad is directly related to your individual priorities and what you are willing and able to spend.

M & S's Luxury Lake Como Elopement Real Wedding Budget Breakdown | Enrico Mocci ortaweddingphotos.com

M & S – Lake Como, Italy

As it was just the two of them, M & S wanted a very special setting for their wedding. They chose the exclusive locations of Villa Monastero for their civil ceremony and Grand Hotel Tremezzo for their wedding and honeymoon accommodation.

Set against the backdrop of Lake Como, Villa Monastero is one of the areas most important historical sites. With a magnificent ‘portico’  and stunning gardens that stretch for two kilometres along the lake’s edge, the villa is a magical location for an intimate civil ceremony.

The Grand Hotel Tremezzo is an iconic art nouveau masterpiece situated on the western beaches of Lake Como. With views of the crystalline waters and the Grigne mountains, the hotel is known for its luxurious accommodation and includes three pools, a lakeside private beach, and private park.

Below M & S share some valuable tips which are equally relevant to planning a larger wedding abroad as well as an elopement.

Pearls of Wisdom:

Prepare a short list and visit your potential venues well ahead of time. We found our on-site visits of potential venues, accompanied by our wedding planner, to be invaluable.

Take the time to enjoy where you are, both before and after your ceremony. We stayed in the area for a few days both before and after, why not make the most of a place that you picked for a reason?

If, as we did, you want an intimate wedding ceremony then we would strongly recommend you hold a celebration party when you get back. Those that couldn’t get to the wedding will really appreciate it, and if you can have some photos of the wedding made up for the party.

And finally, don’t ask a friend to do the party pictures. We did, and were disappointed. Always use a professional that is not a friend, just as we did with the actual wedding (Enrico Mocci at ortaweddingphotos.com was great).

M & S's Luxury Lake Como Elopement Real Wedding Budget Breakdown | Enrico Mocci ortaweddingphotos.com

Total Cost: €15,337 (including 7 night luxury stay) + £3,750 Home Party

Details

Location: Lake Como, Italy

Date: 7 September 2018

Number of Guests: 0

Ceremony Venue: Villa Monastero (Civil Ceremony)

Time of Ceremony: 4:00pm

Reception Venue: Celebrated with a private meal overlooking Lake Como, Grand Hotel Tremezzo

Number of Days at Wedding Location Prior to Wedding: 3

Number of Days at Wedding Location: 7

Pre Wedding Activity: Lake tour of Lake Como, private sea plane flyover of lake and wedding venue, spa sessions

Post Wedding Activity: Toured the local area and travelled on the Bernina Express in Switzerland

Planning Method: Wedding Planner – WeddingBox Lake Como

Planning Time: 9 months

M & S's Luxury Lake Como Elopement Real Wedding Budget Breakdown | Enrico Mocci ortaweddingphotos.com M & S's Luxury Lake Como Elopement Real Wedding Budget Breakdown | Enrico Mocci ortaweddingphotos.com

Budget Breakdown

Ceremony Venue: €1200

Wedding Paperwork & Legal Fees: €1,400 (Italy) + £100 – Certificate No Impediment and statutory declarations (UK)

Celebrant: €220

Photography: €700

Wedding Flowers: €213 (bouquet, buttonhole and table arrangement at Villa Monastero)

Wedding Hair & Make-up: €350

Wedding Transportation: €315 for private water taxi to/from Villa Monastero

Pre & Post Wedding Activities: cost not available

Wedding Planning Fee: €2,196

M & S's Luxury Lake Como Elopement Real Wedding Budget Breakdown | Enrico Mocci ortaweddingphotos.comM & S's Luxury Lake Como Elopement Real Wedding Budget Breakdown | Enrico Mocci ortaweddingphotos.com

Transport & Accommodation

Flights: Flights £148, airport parking £83, private taxi to/from Milan airport €288

Accommodation: €8,085 for 7 nights B&B at the Grand Hotel Tremezzo

M & S's Luxury Lake Como Elopement Real Wedding Budget Breakdown | Enrico Mocci ortaweddingphotos.comM & S's Luxury Lake Como Elopement Real Wedding Budget Breakdown | Enrico Mocci ortaweddingphotos.com

Additional Information

Would you recommend your method of planning? Yes

What were you not willing to compromise on? Wedding location and our hotel. We wanted something very special.

M & S's Luxury Lake Como Elopement Real Wedding Budget Breakdown | Enrico Mocci ortaweddingphotos.com

Honeymoon & Home Party

Honeymoon Location: Lake Como

Did you have a Home Party: Yes

Cost of Home Party: £3,000 for venue (incl food and DJ, excl drinks and decorations) plus £750 for band.

M & S's Luxury Lake Como Elopement Real Wedding Budget Breakdown | Enrico Mocci ortaweddingphotos.com

Wedding Photography: Enrico Mocci – ortaweddingphotos.com

The cost of getting married in Italy is always a hotly debated topic in our Closed Facebook Group, so we hope you found the breakdown of the cost of M & S’s Luxury Lake Como Elopement helpful. For further examples or what other couples spent on their wedding abroad see our real destination wedding cost breakdowns section.

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