advertise | supplier hub membership | contact | couples planning club

Weddings Abroad Guide

Weddings Abroad Guide - How to Get Married Abroad

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • YouTube
  • Home
    • Latest News
    • About Weddings Abroad Guide
    • Join our Directory
  • Planning Tools
  • Find a Supplier
    • Easy Supplier Finder
    • Venues
    • Photographers / Videographers
    • Wedding Planners
    • Elopement & Same-Sex Planners
    • Supplier Directory
    • Special Offers
    • Luxury Wedding Collection
    • Join our Directory
  • Planning
    • Free Planning Checklist
    • Digital Planning Tool Kit
    • Online Consultation
    • Getting Started
      • Top 10 Planning Tips
      • Step by Step Planning Guide
      • Planning Checklist
    • How to Plan
      • Planning Club
      • Wedding Planners
      • Wedding Packages
      • Do it Yourself
    • The Essentials
      • Choosing the Right Suppliers
      • Selecting Your Venues
      • Photography – Key Points
      • Wedding Insurance
    • Guests & Etiquette
    • Expert Tips
  • Destinations
    • All Destinations
      • Europe A – G
        • Austria
        • Croatia
        • Cyprus
        • Czech Republic
        • Denmark
        • France
        • Gibraltar
        • Greece
      • Europe H – O
        • Iceland
        • Ireland
        • Italy
        • Lapland
        • Malta
        • Monaco
        • Netherlands
      • Europe P – Z
        • Portugal
        • Slovakia
        • Slovenia
        • Spain
        • Switzerland
        • Turkey
        • United Kingdom
      • Middle East / Dubai
      • India
      • Asia / Pacific
      • Africa / Indian Ocean
      • Caribbean
      • Canada
      • Americas
      • Australasia
    • Choosing Your Destination
    • Month by Month Destination Guide
  • Costs
    • What will it Cost Us?
    • Free Cost Estimator
    • Real Budget Breakdowns
    • Popular Destinations
    • Cost & Budget Tips
    • Weddings on a Budget
    • Costs for Guests
    • Currency Exchange Tips
  • Legal Guidelines
    • Legal Requirements
    • Documentation
    • Civil Weddings
    • Gay Marriage Countries
    • Wedding Blessings
    • Registering Your Marriage
  • Details
    • Destination Wedding Details
    • Wedding Dresses
    • Wedding Stationery
    • Wedding Websites
    • Gift Lists & Honeymoon Registries
    • Photography Contracts
    • The Groom
  • Real Weddings
    • Wedding Abroad Inspiration
    • Latest Real Weddings
    • Real Weddings by Destination
    • Film Gallery
    • Styled Shoots
    • Photo Gallery

Wedding Blessing
Symbolic Wedding Ceremony

Having a wedding blessing is a lovely way to make your destination wedding ceremony highly personalised and unique.

Although a symbolic ceremony / wedding blessing is not a legally recognised marriage ceremony, it is a perfect solution if you are unable to meet the residency and legal requirements in the country where you would like to celebrate your wedding.

Katy & Tony's Beach Wedding Blessing in Tuscany / Glam Events in Tuscany / Cristiano Brizzi Photography

Katy & Tony’s private beach wedding blessing

Benefits of a Wedding Blessing

Having chosen to have a wedding blessing for our wedding ceremony in France, I believe it offers many additional benefits over a standard civil wedding ceremony.

It allows you to:

  • Have your wedding ceremony in any country of your choice
  • Have your ceremony take place in any location of your choice
  • Choose the words for your ceremony
  • Set the framework for your ceremony
  • Decide who performs your ceremony
  • Have your ceremony conducted in your native language

The meaning of your Wedding Ceremony

Your wedding ceremony is one of the most important parts of your wedding day and it should be the one element of your day that is all about the two of you.

The type of ceremony you choose to have, be it religious or non-religious should reflect your outlook on marriage and the meaning you associate with it.

Although a wedding ceremony is all about the commitment you are making to each other, many types of ceremonies follow a set structure and do not always allow for individual expression.

A wedding blessing overcomes this, you do not have to follow a set structure and you can choose the words that go into your ceremony.

Civil Ceremony vs Wedding Blessing

In countries such as Australia and the United States, a civil ceremony is legally binding if performed by a Civil Celebrant and is very much like a wedding blessing. In this type of ceremony you may incorporate your own choice of words and hold your ceremony in a location of your choice.

Unfortunately, this is not the case in many parts of Europe, where a civil ceremony may only take place in officially deemed premises and although you may include your own readings, the standard framework of the ceremony in many instances may not be altered.

Legalities of a Wedding Blessing

A wedding blessing is not a legally recognised marriage ceremony.

If you do choose to have a wedding blessing you will need to also have an official civil wedding ceremony to ensure that the legal formalities are adhered to and to obtain a legally binding marriage certificate.

Many couples choose to get legally married in their country of residence prior to going abroad.

Couples who choose to have a wedding blessing, generally regard this as what makes them husband and wife and not the official legal ceremony.

If you want to have a legal ceremony in the country where you choose to marry you can find more information about the wedding abroad legal requirements here.

Celebrants

With a wedding blessing you can literally choose anyone to perform your ceremony, however I would recommend having a fully trained professional celebrant officiate.

An experienced and professional celebrant will offer advice on the structure of your ceremony and help with preparing the words of your ceremony, as well as readings and any music you may wish to include. They will work with you to ensure that your special occasion is a success.

You can find a celebrant from the country that you choose to marry or alternatively you may wish to have a celebrant from the UK or the British or Irish Humanist Association perform the ceremony for you. In this instance, you will be required to pay for their travel and accommodation however you may find the cost out-weighs any “language barriers”.

Nat and Matt’s Symbolic Ceremony at Chateau de Lacoste, France,
Wedding Celebrant – Gaynor McKernan, See More Here

Recommended Celebrants

I highly recommend the following independent wedding celebrants:

  • Unique Ceremonies – Wedding Celebrants France are a team of professional celebrants who will help you create a unique symbolic ceremony in France and Corsica.
  • Gaynor McKernan from Ceremonies in France is an English celebrant based in SW France.
  • Deborah Taliani is a registered wedding celebrant and destination wedding planner who works in Italy
  • Celebrans is based in Italy but will travel worldwide.

Hot Tips!

Padre Peter Wedding Celebrant in Spain & WorldWideWhichever ceremony you choose, religious or non-religious, to many of your guests this is “the real thing”! This is where your promises are made to love each other for ever. The registry office is just what it says; registering the marriage with the local municipal authority. This ceremony registers the marriage with a much higher authority and is performed in front of the most important people, your family and friends, as witnesses. And it is a very moving experience for many. Padre Peter – Retired Wedding Celebrant

Personalised Ceremony

A wedding blessing / affirmation may take place in any location of your choice and may be personalised with words and music that have real meaning to you. It may be as traditional or casual and romantic or creative as you choose.

This type of ceremony is also a great alternative if you have children and wish for them to be part of the ceremony.

Concerns

Many couples have concerns that if they officially get married prior to their wedding day that it will detract from the meaning of their day.

From personal experience I can tell you that this definitely isn’t the case. My husband and I opted to have a “secret” civil ceremony in the United Kingdom prior to our wedding day and then had a highly personalised wedding blessing / humanist wedding ceremony on the day of our wedding.

Aside from our witnesses we didn’t tell anyone that we had been officially married and we did not consider ourselves husband and wife until we had our Humanist wedding blessing in France.

All our guests commented on what an incredibly unique and touching ceremony it was and really appreciated being part of a personal and meaningful event.

Charlotte and Christian who got married in Provence, had a civil ceremony in France the day before their wedding and then chose to have a wedding blessing at Charlotte’s family’s villa on their wedding day.

They chose to have a wedding blessing so the ceremony could be conducted at the location of their choice, so their ceremony could be conducted in English and so they could personalise the ceremony to give it a very personal feel. Charlotte & Christian wrote their own vows and had a beautiful reading.

Costs

If you use an independent celebrant or member of the Humanist Association to perform your ceremony, a fee is charged for this, and will vary from one organisation to the next. The amount is usually in line with the fee that you will pay for a religious or civil ceremony. An additional fee may be incurred for travel and accommodation, if required.

Additional Contacts

  • Unique Ceremonies (France / Corsica)
  • Ceremonies in France (France)
  • Deborah Taliani (Italy)
  • Celebrans (Italy)
  • The British Humanist Association
  • The Humanist Organisation of Scotland
  • The Humanist Association of Ireland
Infinity Weddings & Events

Reshma & Christopher’s wedding blessing at Castello Di Gabbiano

Sample Wedding Blessing / Symbolic Ceremony

Barry and Denise held their ceremony in the beautiful gardens of the villa where they chose to marry. They decided to follow a traditional structure similar to a religious/civil ceremony, however they had the freedom to personalise their ceremony with their own wedding vows allowing them to reflect their view on marriage.

Introduction:

Celebrant

It gives me great pleasure to welcome you all here today on behalf of Barry and Denise. They have chosen their own words to express their love and commitment to each other. They have chosen their own way to express their vision of their future together. They do this here in a place of their own choice, among family and friends.

Barry and Denise, as you know, only you can make your marriage lasting and meaningful. By a mutual commitment to creating an atmosphere of care, consideration and respect, by a willingness to face the tensions and anxieties that underline human life, you can make your wedded life a source of great strength and joy. Your love for one and another and your willingness to accept each other’s strong points and weaknesses with understanding and respect will provide a foundation for continued growth and intimacy.

Respect and celebrate with each other, not only all that you have in common but also your individual perspectives on life, and the different traditions you bring with you. Cherish every opportunity that allows you to share your beliefs and grow closer to each other.

Today there is a vast unknown future stretching out before you. That future, with its hopes and disappointments, its joys and its sorrows, is hidden from your eyes, but it is a great tribute to your faith in each other that you are willing to face it together.

May the love with which you join heart and hand today never fail, but grow deeper and surer with every year you spend together.

May you dare to dream dreams not yet dreamt.

May you find constant reward and challenge as you pursue the ongoing adventure of learning who you are and where you want to go.

May you always have a special sense of your mission in life together, and may you never tire of the endless possibilities of exploring your shared existence.

Reading

I promise to give you the best of myself,
and to ask of you no more than you can give

I promise to accept you the way you are.
I fell in love with you for the qualities, abilities,
and outlook on life that you have,
and I won’t try to reshape you in a different image.

I promise to respect you as a person
with your own interests, desires and needs,
and to realise that these are sometimes different,
but no less important, than my own.

I promise to share with you my time,
my close attention,
and to bring joy and strength and imagination
to our relationship.

I promise to keep myself open to you,
to let you see through the window of my personal world,
into my innermost fears and feelings, secrets and dreams.

I promise to grow along with you,
to be willing to face change, as we both change,
in order to keep our relationship alive and exciting.

The Asking

Celebrant to the groom

Will you Barry take Denise to be your wedded wife, to share your life with her; And do you pledge that you will love respect and care for her, And stand by her through whatever may come, So you can genuinely share your life together?

Barry: I will

Celebrant to the bride

Will you Denise take Barry to be your wedded husband, to share your life with him; And do you pledge that you will love respect and care for him, And stand by him through whatever may come, So you can genuinely share your life together?

Denise: I will

Wedding Vows

The celebrant asks Barry and Denise to repeat their vows after him:

Groom
Denise, I invite you to share my life, I promise to love you as your husband and friend, and respect you as an individual, with all I have to give, and all that I feel inside, in the only way I know how, completely and forever.

Bride
Barry, I promise to love you as your wife and friend, and respect you as an individual, with all I have to give, and all that I feel inside, in the only way I know how, completely and forever.

Ring Ceremony

Groom
Denise, This ring I give you, It is my personal gift, My personal promise of love and trust, And pride that you have chosen to share your life with me.

Bride
Denise, This ring I give you, It is my personal gift, My personal promise of love and trust, And pride that you have chosen to share your life with me.

Reading

I love you,
Not only for what you are,
But for what I am
When I am with you,
Not only for what
You have made of yourself,
But for what
You are making of me.
I love you
For the part of me
That you bring out,
I love you
For putting your hand
Into my heaped up heart
And for passing over
All the foolish, weak things
That you can’t help
Dimly seeing there,
And for drawing out into the light
All the beautiful belongings
That no one else had looked
Quite far enough to find.
I love you because you
Are helping me to make
Of the lumber of my life
Not a tavern
But a temple,
Out of the works
Of my everyday
Not a reproach
But a song…

Declaration Of Marriage

Celebrant

In the presence of their family and friends, Barry and Denise have pledged together in this ceremony, to share their lives in love and understanding. We have witnessed their special promises to each other, symbolised by taking vows and by exchanging rings.

I declare them, before us all, to be husband and wife.

(The bride and groom kiss)

The Signing

The Bride and Groom and the two witnesses sign the marriage certificate.

During the signing of the marriage certificate, music to be played

Conclusion

Celebrant

On behalf of Barry and Denise, I would like to thank you all again for sharing with them this special occasion.

Show more
Show less

Did you have a wedding blessing abroad? If so I would love to hear why you chose to have a wedding blessing and if you were happy with your decision to do so. I’m sure your experiences would be beneficial to other couples. If you would like further information on having a wedding blessing please feel free to contact me.

Wedding Abroad Blessing and Legal Ceremony Overview

Find a Celebrant to perform your wedding blessing abroad.

Find a celebrant to perform your blessing, symbolic ceremony, civil partnership or vow renewal ceremony

Find a Celebrant

Civil Wedding Abroad

A civil wedding is the most popular type of wedding ceremony for couples getting married abroad and in some countries it is the only legally recognised type of marriage ceremony.

Civil Wedding Abroad

Registering Your Marriage

The following page outlines if and how you can register your marriage in your country of residence.

Registering Your Marriage

Wedding Abroad Legal Requirements

An overview of the Wedding Abroad Legal Requirements & the necessary Documentation to ensure your marriage is legally recognised.

Wedding Abroad Legal Requirements

Welcome to Weddings Abroad Guide a website dedicated to those planning a destination wedding providing independent information & advice for those planning a wedding abroad.

Digital Wedding Planning Tool Kit - The Essential must have Easy to Follow Checklists, Spreadsheets & Workbooks Guide for a Destination Wedding Abroad by Weddings Abroad Guide

Planning a Wedding Abroad - Easy to follow steps www.weddingsabroadguide.com Learn how you can plan a Destination Wedding www.weddingsabroadguide.com Downloadable Destination Wedding Planning Tools & Checklists www.weddingsabroadguide.com Weddings Abroad Destination Guides & Country Overviews www.weddingsabroadguide.com Top Destination Wedding Tips & Advice www.weddingsabroadguide.comDestination Wedding Etiquette Tips & Advice www.weddingsabroadguide.com Destination Wedding Inspiration, Real Wedding Stories, Films, Styled Shoots www.weddingsabroadguide.comTop 4 Destination Wedding Planning Essentials www.weddingsabroadguide.comDestination Wedding Details all you need to know www.weddingsabroadguide.comFind Destination Wedding Suppliers worldwide www.weddingabroadguide.com Find your perfect Destination Wedding Venue www.weddingsabroadguide.comWant to know more about getting married abroad? Ask a question here. www.weddingsabroadguide.com

Mix & Match Bridesmaid Dresses from Dessy Group

Honeymoon & Wedding Gift List by Holidaysplease member of the Destination Wedding Directory by Weddings Abroad Guide

We can connect you with Destination Wedding Couples - Let us help you Grow your Wedding Business.- Find out more about how to be become a member our Destination Wedding Directory.

The Ultimate Destination Wedding Planning Checklist - Download your FREE Planning Tools Today!  // weddingsabroadguide.com

Planning!

Digital Wedding Planning Tool Kit - The Essential must have Easy to Follow Checklists, Spreadsheets & Workbooks Guide for a Destination Wedding Abroad by Weddings Abroad Guide

Been featured? Grab a badge

featured-on-weddings-abroad-guide

Browse by topic

Subscribe to our Newsletter

Join in!

Find me on

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • YouTube
  • About
  • Privacy Policy
  • Real Weddings
  • How to Guide
  • Planning Tools
  • Latest News
  • Directory

© 2023 · weddingsabroadguide.com. All rights reserved

This website uses cookies to improve your experience. We'll assume you're ok with this, but you can opt-out if you wish.Accept Reject

Read More

Privacy & Cookies Policy

Privacy Overview

This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. Out of these, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. But opting out of some of these cookies may affect your browsing experience.
Necessary
Always Enabled
Necessary cookies are absolutely essential for the website to function properly. This category only includes cookies that ensures basic functionalities and security features of the website. These cookies do not store any personal information.
Non-necessary
Any cookies that may not be particularly necessary for the website to function and is used specifically to collect user personal data via analytics, ads, other embedded contents are termed as non-necessary cookies. It is mandatory to procure user consent prior to running these cookies on your website.
SAVE & ACCEPT